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Leadership is decided before the meeting, not in it

Most leadership decisions never get made in front of anyone. They are made on a Sunday night, on a drive home, in the ten quiet minutes before the calendar takes over. By the time a decision shows up in a meeting, the leader either already made it or has avoided it three times. The leaders I trust most do not need an audience to make the call. They have already done the work in private. The meeting is the announcement. The leaders I do not trust are still collecting opinions. Not looking for information. Looking for someone else to take the call so they do not have to own it. There is a sentence I listen for: "I just want to make sure everyone is on the same page." That phrase almost never means alignment. It means the leader has not yet decided to do the harder thing. The standard is not popularity. It is conviction tested in private and held in public. When you find yourself reaching for consensus, you already know what you would decide if no one was watching. The cost of waiting one more week is paid by everyone watching you wait. What is the call you are reaching for consensus on this week, when you already know the answer?